Role Play For Your Sex Life!

   Many people do not understand race play, BDSM, or other "kink community" acts and beliefs. This is mainly because many people become comfortable with the mundane and are afraid of experimenting outside of what is viewed as normal. It is even harder to understand why feminists would want to partake in any of these acts that may put them in a submissive position, even though its sexually submissive. How is it that one may want to be controlled and dominated when this is exactly what they have been fighting against?
   There are many different forms of race play that put someone in a higher dominating position. This type of interaction overlaps with BDSM and can be taken in to consideration in a similar manner. A lot of the time the bottom, or submissive person, in these relationships is usually someone that has been put in a submissive poison in the "real world". Many time people who have had to fight for equality and rights end up wanting to be placed in the same position in their sex lives because it becomes easier for them to work through their emotions. By being beat and making physical pain, which can be derived from emotional pain,  turn into pleasure, allows for some to interpret and express those emotions in ways that are very different form internally oppressing certain feelings. This, in turn, becomes a means of therapeutic intervention. It allows for people to turn pain into pleasure.
  In contrast to my earlier statements, race play can be a means to contradict the everyday hardships of life and can be a means of escaping the struggles one may have to experience. For example, black women are viewed as being "tough"  or "hard" or "strong" and by being dominated in the practice of BDSM or any type of "play" allows for a role reversal. It gives them a way to feel like they can release and not be so tough. Giving up power is sometimes exhilarating and can allow for transformation.
  Sex and penetration can become mundane and even boring for some people. Role play spices up sexual relations and makes it more dynamic. People are able to experiment with roles that are not typical to their everyday lives. This can become empowering and can help to release endorphins during role play and make for a more provocative and sensual stimulation. White privilege can become erased in race play! Black domination can be sexual subjugation! Subordination can become desirable and fantasy becomes less abstract!